Bigger and Smaller

Well we've kind of been on hold on any "Serious" schooling but we've been learning lots just living our daily lives! Tristan's new find today? That when you look in your mom's aunt's OLD funky glass lamp that you can a) see yourself b) if you get closer you get really big and look silly and c) if you move back away from it you get smaller in the lamp and look pretty normal.

Tristan spent about 5 minutes moving his nose close to the lamp and even touching it and then far away to see how small he got. It only took one time in and out to figure out that he got bigger and smaller I was pretty impressed.

It's so fascinating to see that little lightbulb click on in their head!

In Griffin news he's finally starting to learn to walk. He's far from doing it regularly but it shouldn't be too much longer. Tonight he took several steps on a few different occasions. Grandma is predicting he'll be walking by New Years... her first predicition for Christmas walking was wrong hehe.

When my children are older...

I just read this on one of my homeschool boards and thought that it was great and really embraces how unschooling and homeschooling works and just being a parent in general.

Someday, when my children are older, I will tell them:I loved you enough to care about where you were going, with whom, and what time you'd be home and to help you get there, have fun, and come home.

I loved you enough to be silent when you needed me to be silent and to be there when you needed to talk, to give you the space to discover for yourself who your true friends were and to help you pick up the pieces when you were hurt.

I loved you enough to help you pay for the bubble gum you wanted and to make things right when they felt wrong.

I loved you enough to stand by you for a lifetime, to be by your side for two hours while we cleaned your room, a job that would have taken me 15 minutes, but the conversation was too precious to lose.

You learned that I wasn't perfect as we shared our lives together.

I loved you enough to let you make choices even when the stakes were high and to help bear your burden whenever I could.

But most of all, I loved you enough to always help you get what you needed, to put our relationship first and to walk in your shoes instead of engaging in battles.

I'm glad you came to me, because in the end, you've helped me grow and become a better person, so I won, too, in this relationship.

And someday, when your children are old enough to understand the principles that guide this legacy of parenting, I hope you tell them how they helped you grow and become a better person.